Evolve Ventures
Co-hosts, Emilia Smith and Bianca Thomas are taking state-of-the-art research, experience, and data-backed methodologies to evolve the old version of themselves leveraging their obsessions into Evolve Ventures, a podcast designed to accelerate evolution, excellence, and extraordinary.Evolve Ventures is designed to radically equip you for today’s experiences, and tomorrow’s challenges, shifting you into unlimited potential. Topics will dive into the keys of leadership, elite brain performance, the not-so-scary parts of tech, the tools to navigate mental health, strategies for optimal living, relationships, and of course, personal development without the fluff. You can look forward to deeper stories, insights, and tactical takeaways to leverage and apply in your everyday life. Connect with the Evolve Ventures team on Instagram: @EvolveVentures @EvolvewithEmilia @EvolvewithBianca | Like the Evolve Ventures Facebook Page to connect with the global community: https://tinyurl.com/evolveventures
Evolve Ventures
#397 | Every People-Pleaser Needs to Know This
Have you ever said yes when everything inside you screamed no? In today’s raw and honest episode, we explore the hidden cost of people-pleasing through Bianca’s vulnerable story and hard-earned wisdom. Together, we unpack how the craving for love and acceptance can slowly lead us to abandon ourselves and how we can choose differently. If you've ever felt the sting of regret after putting yourself last, this conversation is for you.
Here’s the episode related to today’s discussion and why we highly recommend listening to it as well:
#379 | What is Your Go-To Shame Response? - https://apple.co/43utfSY
#386 | The #1 Skill You Need to Learn to Be Happy - https://apple.co/4k0TRjp
Out of the Mud (OOTM): "The Skills for Being a Great Partner" - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/-tSEztgpRHaPogd-Z2Xbbg#/registration
Learn more about the On-Demand Therapy - #YouDoYou Program: https://evolveventurestech.com/therapy/
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Show notes:
(2:31) Bianca's 26th birthday
(6:15) The cost of saying "yes" to please
(9:02) Holiday breakdown from heartbreak and wine
(12:26) How low self-worth feeds people pleasing
(15:48) The tipping point every pleaser faces
(21:41) The truth that snapped her out of it
(22:53) Rewriting the story on her 30th birthday
(25:36) Why discomfort doesn’t mean you're wrong
(27:18) Are they loving the real you?
(29:07) Why manipulators target people pleasers
(33:41) Outro
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(Stay tuned for this coming Thursday’s episode!)
